Divorce is one of life’s most emotionally and financially challenging experiences. Whether amicable or contentious, navigating the process requires careful planning and informed decision-making. At Casais & Prias, PLLC, we understand the complexities of family law and are committed to guiding our clients through each step with clarity and compassion.

Below are key do’s and don’ts to help you approach your divorce strategically and avoid common pitfalls.

DO: Hire an Experienced Family Law Attorney

One of the biggest mistakes people make is assuming they can handle a divorce without legal counsel or relying solely on the experiences of friends or family. Every divorce is unique, with its own facts, financial issues, and family dynamics. A qualified family law attorney will understand how to protect your interests, ensure your rights are upheld, and help you avoid costly legal errors.

At Casais & Prias, PLLC, our attorneys bring years of experience in Florida family law, offering strategic representation tailored to your specific needs.

DON’T: Use Divorce as a Weapon

While emotions run high during a divorce, using the process to “punish” your spouse can backfire. Deliberately prolonging proceedings or making unreasonable demands may harm your own case, increase legal fees, and cause unnecessary stress for everyone involved—especially children.

Instead, aim for cooperation. Let your attorney manage the legal complexities so you can focus on building a new, healthier future.

DO: Consider the Tax Implications

Asset division doesn’t just involve a 50/50 split—it also includes understanding how taxes may impact what you receive. Property settlements, retirement accounts, alimony, and even child support can have long-term tax consequences. Failing to consider these issues can lead to major financial setbacks.

Your attorney should work with tax professionals to ensure you make informed decisions that safeguard your financial future.

DON’T: Badmouth Your Spouse

Speaking negatively about your spouse—especially in front of your children or on social media—can seriously damage your case. Judges often consider the behavior of both parties when deciding custody, and hostility may reflect poorly on your ability to co-parent.

Maintain a respectful tone. If you need emotional support, consider speaking with a therapist. Focus on resolving your divorce constructively.

DO: Be Honest About Assets

Attempting to hide marital property is not only unethical—it’s illegal. Dishonesty in disclosing assets may lead to a loss of credibility, reversal of agreements, and even criminal consequences.

Disclose everything to your lawyer. Full transparency allows your legal team to advocate effectively on your behalf.

Divorce: Major Transition

Divorce marks a major transition, but it doesn’t have to be a destructive one. By making informed decisions, staying cooperative, and relying on experienced legal counsel, you can protect your rights and move forward with confidence.

If you’re considering divorce or have questions about your legal options, contact Casais & Prias, PLLC at (305) 722-8015 to schedule a confidential consultation. We’re here to help you through this challenging time with skill, empathy, and professionalism.

Divorce FAQs

Why is it risky to rely on friends or family for divorce advice?

Each divorce is different. What worked for someone else may not work for you. A family law attorney can provide accurate, case-specific guidance.

What happens if one party tries to delay the divorce process on purpose?

Uncooperative behavior can prolong litigation and increase costs. Judges may impose penalties or award attorney’s fees to the more cooperative party.

How do taxes affect asset division?

Certain assets come with tax liabilities or future tax implications. For example, withdrawing from a retirement account may incur penalties or income taxes.

Can speaking poorly about my spouse affect custody?

Yes. Courts prioritize the best interests of the child, and hostile behavior may be seen as harmful to your child’s well-being.

What are the consequences of hiding marital assets?

You could lose those assets in court, face sanctions, or even be charged with fraud. Full disclosure is always in your best interest.

Is it okay to vent about my divorce online?

It’s best to avoid sharing details of your divorce on social media. Anything posted publicly can be used in court and may damage your case.

What should I do if I feel overwhelmed during the divorce?

Seek professional help. A therapist can help you manage stress, and your legal team can guide you through the process with clarity and support.