When preparing for a USCIS interview as a same-sex couple, it’s natural to feel a mix of excitement and nervousness. If you’re applying for a marriage-based adjustment of status, the interview is a critical step in proving the legitimacy of your relationship to the United States Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS). At Casais & Prias, PLLC, we understand that same-sex couples may face unique concerns during this process, and we’re here to help you feel confident, informed, and prepared.

Understanding the Purpose of the Interview

The USCIS interview is designed to determine whether your marriage is bona fide—that is, entered into in good faith and not for immigration purposes only. Both opposite-sex and same-sex couples are evaluated by the same standards under U.S. immigration law. However, same-sex couples may sometimes feel added pressure due to societal stigmas or a fear of bias. 

What Happens During the Interview

Typically, the interview is scheduled at your local USCIS field office and conducted by an immigration officer. Both spouses must attend. The officer will review your application, ask questions about your relationship, and examine supporting documentation you’ve submitted.

Questions can range from simple to highly personal. You might be asked:

• How did you meet?

• When and where did you get married?

• What are your daily routines?

• What kind of joint assets do you have?

• How do you celebrate holidays together?

Sometimes, interviews may be conducted together; sometimes, couples are separated to compare answers for consistency.

How to Prepare as a Same-Sex Couple

Gather Joint Documentation
Bring evidence of your life together. This includes joint bank account statements, lease or mortgage documents, utility bills, travel itineraries, photos, and affidavits from friends or family who can attest to your relationship.

Practice Interview Questions
Review common questions with your spouse. Practice responding naturally and consistently.

Be Honest and Calm
If you don’t know the answer, say so. Don’t guess. Officers appreciate honesty over rehearsed or inaccurate answers.

Know Your Application Inside and Out
Make sure you’ve reviewed your I-130 and I-485 applications thoroughly. Be prepared to clarify or elaborate on any details.

Respect the Process
Dress professionally and arrive early. This shows respect for the officer and the process.

Anticipate Cultural or Family Differences
If either spouse has not come out to their family, or if cultural norms have affected your relationship, be ready to explain those dynamics. Officers understand that every relationship is unique.

Seek Legal Guidance if Needed
An experienced immigration attorney can help you prepare for your interview.

USCIS Interview FAQs

Will USCIS treat us differently because we are a same-sex couple?
No. Same-sex couples are entitled to the same rights and protections under immigration law as opposite-sex couples. 

What documents should we bring to prove our relationship is real?
Bring evidence such as joint leases, bank accounts, insurance policies, utility bills, travel records, photographs, and affidavits from loved ones affirming your relationship.

Can we be interviewed separately?
Yes. In some cases, USCIS may separate spouses to ensure consistency in answers. It’s not a sign of suspicion, just a tool to verify authenticity.

What if we don’t remember every detail the same way?
Minor inconsistencies are common and not usually cause for concern. However, major differences may raise red flags. Focus on answering truthfully and as accurately as possible.

Do we need to disclose intimate or private details?
While questions may be personal, you are not required to share anything that makes you uncomfortable. Politely declining to answer a question is acceptable, but be prepared to explain why.

Should we bring an attorney to the interview?
While not required, having an attorney present can provide peace of mind and ensure your rights are protected, especially in complex cases or if you anticipate potential issues.

What happens after the interview?
You may receive a decision on the spot, or it might take a few weeks. If more evidence is needed, USCIS will issue a Request for Evidence (RFE). If approved, you’ll move forward in the green card process.

Emotional Experience

Going through the USCIS interview process as a same-sex couple can be an emotional experience, but it is also a meaningful opportunity to affirm your relationship. Preparation, honesty, and a calm demeanor go a long way. At Casais & Prias, PLLC, we are proud to support same-sex couples navigating the immigration system and committed to helping you build your life together in the United States.

If you have questions or would like legal support for your USCIS interview, please call us at (305) 722-8015 to schedule a consultation.