The green card interview is a key step in the immigration process for married couples, including same-sex couples. Its purpose is to confirm that your marriage is legitimate and not solely for immigration benefits. If you’re in a same-sex marriage, rest assured that USCIS treats all marriages equally under federal law. Still, the process can feel stressful, especially if you’re unsure what to expect.
At Casais & Prias, PLLC, we work with many LGBTQ+ couples to help them feel confident and well-prepared for their interviews. Here’s what you need to know about the most common questions, and how to answer them.
What Types of Questions Will We Be Asked?
The officer’s goal is to determine whether your marriage is bona fide. Questions may cover the history of your relationship, day-to-day life, family interactions, and future plans. While the exact questions vary, here are common categories and examples.
1. How You Met and Fell in Love
- Where did you meet, and when?
- Who made the first move?
- What was your first date like?
- When did you decide to become exclusive?
Preparation Tip: Revisit your early memories together. Be sure both of you tell the same story, even if your versions have minor differences.
2. The Wedding and Marriage Details
- When and where did you get married?
- Who attended the ceremony?
- Did you go on a honeymoon?
- What did you wear at the wedding?
Preparation Tip: Review your wedding photos and any invitations, licenses, or receipts. These small details can help you remember specifics.
3. Daily Life and Shared Routines
- What time do you each wake up?
- Who makes breakfast?
- What side of the bed does each of you sleep on?
- What did you do last weekend?
Preparation Tip: Think about your daily rhythms. If you live apart due to work or school, be prepared to explain that and provide evidence of communication.
4. Living Situation
- How many bedrooms and bathrooms does your home have?
- What color is your couch?
- What kind of toothpaste do you use?
- Do you have pets? Who takes care of them?
Preparation Tip: Walk through your home together and take note of small details that could come up.
5. Family and Friends
- Have you met each other’s families?
- How do your families feel about your relationship?
- Do you celebrate holidays together?
- Who are your closest mutual friends?
Preparation Tip: If you’re not “out” to certain family members, you can explain that to the officer. USCIS recognizes that LGBTQ+ individuals may have unique challenges.
6. Finances and Future Plans
- Do you share a bank account?
- Who pays which bills?
- What are your long-term goals as a couple?
- Are you planning to buy a house or have children?
Preparation Tip: Bring evidence of joint finances, like shared accounts, bills, or purchases. Discuss your future as a couple beforehand.
How to Prepare for the Interview
- Review Your Forms
Make sure you’re both familiar with the answers on your I-130 and I-485 forms. The officer may refer to those responses during the interview. - Practice Together
Go over possible questions out loud. This helps you get comfortable and identify any inconsistent answers. - Stay Calm and Honest
It’s okay to say “I don’t remember” or “I’m not sure.” Avoid guessing or making up answers. USCIS looks for truthfulness, not perfection. - Organize Your Evidence
Bring documents like:- Joint lease/mortgage
- Shared bank statements or credit cards
- Photos throughout your relationship
- Affidavits from friends/family confirming your relationship
- Travel records
- Be Respectful and Professional
Dress appropriately and be polite to the officer. First impressions matter, even in official settings. - Consider Legal Support
If you have concerns or complexities in your case (prior immigration violations, criminal history, etc.), having an attorney at your interview can be extremely helpful.
Not Meant to Intimidate
A same-sex marriage green card interview is not meant to intimidate you—it’s a standard part of the process to ensure your relationship is real. The more natural and prepared you are, the more confident you’ll feel walking in.
At Casais & Prias, PLLC, we take pride in supporting LGBTQ+ couples through the immigration journey with empathy, clarity, and expertise. If you’re preparing for your interview or facing any challenges in your immigration case, we’re here to help.
Call us at (305) 722-8015 to schedule a consultation. Let us help you move forward—together.